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What are the most damaging temptations for guys?

My dad used to say that a guy can't really help being drawn to women, betting, or booze. He figured that what starts as just checking things out can turn into a regular thing, and for some, a real problem. Even if it doesn't get that bad, those things can creep into your life and cause trouble.

I'm not totally sure if he's always right, but I've thought a lot about whether those are the main traps for guys. What's your take? What do you think are the biggest pitfalls for men?

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hsar·2 分·2mo前

men totally get lost chasing women, particularly the wrong ones, uh, 'women' lol

judy5g·1 分·2mo前

Honestly, my biggest temptation is sweets like cake and donuts. I'll have a little whiskey sometimes, but gambling's not my thing, and my wife is so stunning none of that other stuff matters to me anyway.

vainavi·0 分·2mo前

Chasing power over skill. Validation from others instead of yourself. Prioritizing comfort over enduring hardship for growth. Complaining about unchangeable things instead of acting on what you can control.

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alessia_619·0 分·2mo前

Aquinas nailed the character defects causing bad results ages ago, calling them the Seven Deadly Sins. Plus, seven virtues exist to help you steer clear of bad spots.

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earl_sb·0 分·2mo前

desperation and loneliness, plus the most addictive one: hate

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_felix·0 分·2mo前

and power?

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one_moody_lantern·0 分·2mo前

i think lust is the worst temptation for guys. its also the most intoxicating one.

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vig_prairie·0 分·2mo前

i think nicotine is my biggest weakness, and chocolate is a close second for me.

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beau·0 分·2mo前

im not tempted by gambling, smoking, or booze at all. but food? definitely. i struggle with binge eating when bored, so i just dont keep snacks around the house to fix it

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kirby·0 分·2mo前

those 3 you brought up are definitely top tier vices, no doubt. drugs and whining also seem like big problems.

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_salazarlerato_·0 分·2mo前

"Complaining" seems like a big outlier in this list. Can you explain more?

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hanh.andersen63·0 分·2mo前

i see alcohol as a drug too. people draw lines differently, but you can use opiates and both alter your mind. complaining is valid sometimes, but i found most people don't wanna hear it, so timing and topic matter.

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